FREE 90-minute LIVE training on Relational Empowerment
During this FREE TRAINING, we’ll explore how to empower ourselves and others to restore connection and break free from individualistic thinking.
With Terry Real & Dr. Diane Poole Heller
Thursday, April 27, 2023
at 2 pm ET / 1 pm CT / 12 pm MT / 11 am PT
NEW Live Course
Working With Infidelity
Learn how to set limits with compassion, effectively build your child’s self-esteem, and form a robust parental team in this 5-session online course from leading family therapist Terry Real.
Relational Parenting Course
Learn how to set limits with compassion, effectively build your child’s self-esteem, and form a robust parental team in this 5-session online course from leading family therapist Terry Real.
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Guest Appearances
A Matter of Choice: Deciding Whether to be Right or be Married
There’s an ancient saying that's profoundly applicable to couples therapy: the laws of nature are like a miller’s wheel—they’ll grind you to powder, unless you learn to be the miller. In our close relationships, the laws of nature that threaten to grind our love into...
Rowing to Nowhere: When is Enough Enough?
Like most therapists, I love it when couples step into new beginnings. Watching a partner move into accountability for the first time, or become vulnerable as never before, or demonstrate empathy where there’d been none—such moments make my day. But what about couples...
Joining Through the Truth
Most of us were trained to believe that we needed to be extremely careful when helping clients face the really difficult truths in their lives—especially their own obnoxious, selfish, or self-defeating actions. Better to err on the side of going slow, creating safety,...
Working with Difficult Men: Where’s the Leverage for Change
“It used to be a man could tell what to do,” says George, who’s in his mid-50s, a Boston expat now living with his wife, Michele, in her home state of Texas. In jeans and a work shirt, he looks the part of an ordinary American Joe. “Go to work,” George ticks off....
Relationality in Times of Crisis
We are under siege. This global crisis is unlike anything any of us have ever encountered before. We are away from our work, afraid for our finances, afraid for our health and for those we love, living in enforced isolation, and enforced closeness with our partners...
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Relationship Bootcamp™
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The Couples Experiential
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April 6 & 7, 2023
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